Mary Did You Know?
Imagine what was going through Mary’s mind as the angel Gabriel told her she was going to give birth to the Messiah. How she responded is a lesson for us all.
And the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. 31 And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a Son, and you shall call His name Jesus. 32 He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. And the Lord God will give to Him the throne of His father David. (Luke 1:30-32)
Have you ever received a promise or a prophecy, only to have to wait for it to come to fruition? Perhaps you had been told you would have a prosperous ministry, but still seem to be plodding along at square one. Or perhaps you were unable to find employment for a long time. It can be very difficult to wait. Imagine being Mary, who as a young teen was told she would carry the Son of God in her womb. In addition, imagine her being told that this baby would be the Savior of the world. What do you think Mary thought? How did she hold up under all this information? What was going through her mind when she changed his diapers? Taught him to eat solid foods? Helped him learn how to dress? Guided him through childhood to adulthood? Do you think she constantly had in the forefront of her mind, “This is the Son of God!” Or did that thought slowly move to the background when Jesus seemed to be a normal baby and grew up as a regular child? Jesus’ public ministry didn’t start until he was 30 years old. Think about it. For 30 years, Mary held the knowledge that Jesus was the Messiah. Could you imagine holding on to an unrealized truth for so long? Did she have any idea what kind of ministry life Jesus would have? The healings? The prophecy? The teachings? The opposition? The suffering? I, for one, don’t believe that Mary knew the details about Jesus’ life beforehand, and that on some level, she was just as surprised by Jesus’ ministry as anyone. But then, that’s just my thoughts on the subject.
In John 16:12, where Jesus says: “I have much more to say to you, more than you can now bear.” As most of you know, God usually only gives us a piece of the big picture at a time. He may give a promise or a prophecy, but often he doesn’t give us the details of how, or even when, it will unfold. What if the angel had told Mary, “You are to give birth to the Son of God, and after thirty years, he’ll start his public ministry. At that point, your son will be opposed by the leaders of this country for three years, then he’ll be brutally beaten, crucified, and all will abandon Him.” How could Mary or any human possibly bear that knowledge?
I must confess I have been guilty of getting frustrated with God because something I believed didn’t seem to be happening. But Mary made the choice to trust in God. She responded to the angel by saying in Luke 1:38, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.” She had the right perspective (I am a servant of the Lord) and the right heart (let it be according to your word.) We can learn a lot from Mary. If God is calling us, then He will lead and provide everything necessary. We just need to have the faith to follow Him.
The lyrics of “Mary, Did You Know?” stir our hearts with some of the deepest mysteries of Christmas. We think of Mary, a young, vulnerable woman called into the most extraordinary human work in all of history… giving birth to God Incarnate. We are reminded that the baby to whom Mary gave birth would walk on water, heal the sick, and save us. We are astounded once more by the fact that Mary’s baby boy is the “Lord of all creation” and, in fact, “the great I AM.” This is a mystery beyond our comprehension, though it stands at the center of Christian faith. As the Gospel of John puts it, “The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us” (1:14) This Word became human in Jesus, the son of Mary. So, Mary did you know? Why Yes, in part, Yes. Mary knew her child would be the Messiah, as we now know that God became man. But that sort of knowledge does not leave us without questions. As Mary rocked her baby to sleep, night after night, did she not wonder what it would all mean, how her child’s Messiahship (a made-up word ) would play out in the future?
Even when we know the Biblical answers, we still ponder the questions, and it’s a good exercise to do so. Regardless of how much Mary did or did not perfectly understand, we can be sure that she asked many questions of God, the Father, as she cradled God, the Son. As we think back to the manger scene, think about the power, authority and majesty she cradled in her arms. Those little lips were the same lips that had spoken the world into existence. Think on all contained in this young child lying quietly against his mother’s breast. Imagine a young mother lulling a fussy baby to sleep, hot tears streaming down his pink cheeks, and thinking this tiny being is God incarnate, the Savior of us all! In fact, wasn’t He the very one who had given life to his mother, Mary? Extraordinary!
Luke 2:19 says, “Mary treasured all these things, pondering them in her heart.” We could easily assume that Mary had plenty of questions among those ponderings. The question “Mary, did you know?” opens our thoughts for contemplation, curiosity, and wonder. It’s as though we are peering over Mary’s shoulder as she rocks baby Jesus, the Christ, to sleep. It’s allowing us to witness the humility of God and yet, the vastness of power contained in those tiny fingers grasping for the comfort of his mother’s hand. After all, who would know this wonder, this strangeness, and this beauty better than the woman in whose womb the Son of God grew?
The mystery woven into Mary’s calling as Jesus’s mother has tempted some to attribute divine status to her and worship her. It was a temptation even when Jesus was walking the earth. In Luke 11:27 a woman in a crowd shouted to Jesus, “Blessed is the womb that bore you, and the breasts at which you nursed!”
Jesus knew the woman’s line of reasoning was dangerous. So he responded to her:
“Blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and keep it” (Luke11:27-28) Do you see the guarding grace in Jesus’s response? In a single sentence he was protecting Mary’s true blessedness and protecting us from idolatry. Mary’s true blessing is not in bearing the Son, it’s in believing the Son. Being the mother of Jesus was a great blessing, but it was nowhere near the blessing of having her sins paid for by the fruit of her womb. So as we ponder Mary’s experience this Christmas, let us join her relative, Elizabeth, and say of her: “blessed is she who believed the fulfillment of what was spoken to her from the Lord” (Luke 1:45) Because God’s greatest blessing is given to those who believe him and obey Him.